Letters to Pearl

pain

The Secret to Intimacy

My Love is clean. Therefore it requires the death of all that is unclean within you . . . your flesh (self-love). must die. You must allow Me to bring to your awareness the dirt within you so it can be removed . . . pride, self-centeredness, lust, greed, jealousy, unforgiveness, bitterness, religion, idolatries, and unbelief. This process requires a type of death . . . a death of self. Then there is death on the altar of Love, surrender and trust in Me. This death is serving those difficult ones despite injustice, persecution and pain. This death obeys My most difficult commands. Romans 12:1-2, 9-21 With eyes wide open to the mercies of God, I beg you, my brothers, as an act of intelligent worship, to give him your bodies, as a living sacrifice, consecrated to him and acceptable by him. Don’t let the world around you squeeze you into its own mold, but let God re-mold your minds from within, so that you may prove in practice that the plan of God for you is good, meets all his demands and moves towards the goal of true maturity. 9 Let us have no imitation Christian love. Let us have a genuine break with evil and a real devotion to good. 10 Let us have real warm affection for one another as between brothers, and a willingness to let the other man have the credit. 11 Let us not allow slackness to spoil our work and let us keep the fires of the spirit burning, as we do our work for God. 12 Base your happiness on your hope in Christ. When trials come endure them patiently, steadfastly maintain the habit of prayer. 13 Give freely to fellow-Christians in want, never grudging a meal or a bed to those who need them. 14 And as for those who try to make your life a misery, bless them. Don’t curse, bless. 15 Share the happiness of those who are happy, the sorrow of those who are sad. 16 Live in harmony with each other. Don’t become snobbish but take a real interest in ordinary people. Don’t become set in your own opinions. 17 Don’t pay back a bad turn by a bad turn, to anyone. Don’t say “it doesn’t matter what people think”, but see that your public behavior is above criticism. 18 As far as your responsibility goes, live at peace with everyone. 19 Never take vengeance into your own hands, my dear friends: stand back and let God punish if he will. For it is written: ‘Vengeance is mine. I will repay.’ 20-21 … these are God’s words: ‘Therefore if your enemy hungers, feed him; if he thirsts, give him a drink; for in so doing you will heap coals of fire on his head’. Don’t allow yourself to be overpowered with evil. Take the offensive—overpower evil by good!

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Moving on

Water that isn’t moving and being added to, grows stagnant and toxic. Keep moving forward. Leave yesterday behind and don’t look back. Meditating on pain and injustice will keep you in pain and injustice. Living in the past is toxic. It produces soul bacteria of fear, paralysis, depression and hopelessness. It makes forgiveness almost impossible. It brings more questions than answers. It will stunt your growth and make you soul-sick. Parasites from the evil one invade and make your mind their breeding ground. Philippians 3:13 But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. John 8:36 So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. 

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Tools of My trade

I use suffering as a tool of My trade. When you are hurting, know that I Am very, very close and giving you expert attention and Love. I will help you in all things. Be still and accept the process. Jesus spoke very little as He patiently endured the cross. Just know weeping lasts a night but joy comes in the morning. There is an end. I Love you! Isaiah 41:10-13 Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Behold, all who are incensed against you shall be put to shame and confounded; those who strive against you shall be as nothing and shall perish. You shall seek those who contend with you, but you shall not find them; those who war against you shall be as nothing at all. For I, the Lord your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, “Fear not, I am the one who helps you. Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you”–this is the LORD’s declaration–“plans for your welfare, not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.

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Perfect Union

Spend every moment in relationship with Me every day. We will then be welded together through ecstasy and pain, laughter and sorrow, fullness and hunger . . . let’s know it all together. Let’s have the fullness of Life and death together. Then We will know the fullness of perfect union. We will be perfected soul-mates. John 10 Isaiah 45:19 I have not spoken in secret. I have not spoken from a dark place. I have not said to Jacob’s people, ‘It is useless to look for me.’ I am the Lord. I always speak the truth. I always say what is right.

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The Joy in Suffering

Contrary to earth logic and thought, there is great freedom that comes with submission to pain and suffering . . . freedom that cannot be reached any other way. . . through acceptance and trust and submission. James 1:2-4 Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. 1 Peter 4:13 But rejoice insofar as you share Christ’s sufferings, that you may also rejoice and be glad when his glory is revealed. Psalm 34:18 The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. Psalm 94:18-19 When I thought, “My foot slips,” your steadfast love, O Lord, held me up. When the cares of my heart are many, your consolations cheer my soul. Psalm 40:1 I waited patiently for the Lord; he inclined to me and heard my cry. 2 He drew me up from the pit of destruction, out of the miry bog, and set my feet upon a rock, making my steps secure. 3 He put a new song in my mouth, a song of praise to our God. Many will see and fear, and put their trust in the Lord.

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Volunteer Soldiers

A soldier who is a volunteer in a war, doesn’t think twice when he is wounded in battle. It is expected. He is serving his country. You are my soldier.  You will experience pain as you engage with the enemy. But when you remember that you volunteered for My kingdom’s sake and for the sake of the lost, the pain is minimized. Soldiers don’t have self pity. They have determination. Soldiers don’t feel neglected or as if they are treated unfairly. They are involved in something too serious for that. Soldiers don’t consider themselves as missing out on life. They are too busy saving life. The time for rewards will come. Keep fighting. I love you! Philippians 3:13 Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me.

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Thoughts – Day 10

Everyone needs a safe place to live. Is your mind a safe place for you? Are you and your mind one the same thing or are you and your mind separate? In other words, are you your mind? Is your mind you? If your mind is not you, is your mind trustworthy? Is it a friend for you or is it sometimes like an enemy towards you? When your mind is not a safe place for you, where can you go? When your inner life is not your place of peace, what can you do? If your thoughts are not your friends, who can you listen to? Can anyone else help? Do others have the same problem? Do they openly talk about it or do they hide it? Do the people around you hide an inner life of fear, pain, and anger? Or, are they free? Have you ever seen someone who is free? Are you free? Do you want to be free? Where is safety? Philippians 4:7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

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Got Pain?

Are you in pain? Then give to others. Serve those in need that I placed around you. Minister My Love and kindness to them. Give them the help and friendship they need. As you give to those who are also in pain and in need, your own pain will be relieved. When a soul in pain gives sacrificial Love to another needy soul, a pain reliever is released for for both of them. Serve. Give. Love. Have compassion. And pain relievers will be given to you. Luke 6:38 Give to others, and God will give to you. Indeed, you will receive a full measure, a generous helping, poured into your hands—all that you can hold. The measure you use for others is the one that God will use for you.

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The Measuring Stick

When two people spend most of their time together in fellowship, they begin to take on each other’s character. They begin to think alike, speak alike and act alike. How do you know if someone is really speaking for Me? I Am Love. Love always loves. Love always forgives. Love loves you. Love heals you. Love wants all that love made to be loved. Love never fails to have mercy. Love never excludes. Love endures forever. Love stays close. Love is always patient and understanding. Love gives new beginnings and a fresh start every day. Love rescues. Love laughs and is joyful. Love cries with those who have pain. Love provides. Love builds you up. Love does not bring guilt or shame. Love sets free. Love never ends. Do those who lead you in My Name think like Me? Do those who speak to you in My Name speak like Me? Do those who set an example for you act like Me? God is Love. Jeremiah 31:3 People of Israel, I have always loved you, so I continue to show you my constant love.

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What to do with pain

Pain is not to be replayed over again in your mind. Pain is to be left behind. Each day has it\’s new beginning. Do not bring the pain of yesterday into the newness of today. Physical pain, emotional pain and spiritual pain are not the clothes I gave you to wear. Each day, put on faith, hope and Love. Each day, put on My closeness with you. Each day, wear My Presence and My Love. Each day, look forward to My blessings and beautiful plans. Each day, look forward to what you and I will do together. Let\’s burn the old clothes of pain. I will clothe you in brilliant Light. You and I, in Our clothes of Light, will attract others who still wear their clothes of pain. Together We will help them to take off their clothes of painful memories and put on new clothes of a bright, new future. Isaiah 61:3 to preserve those who mourn in Zion, to give to them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness, that they might be called trees of righteousness, Philippians 3:13-14  Brothers, …. but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, I press toward the goal to the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.

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