If someone that you love is not hungry for love then you must not offer your affections and expressions of your love to them. Love them secretly. Love them through support. Love them through prayers. But the volume of your love must be hidden. Why?
When a loveless heart doesn’t want love at this time, the love that you offer can’t be returned. Love in itself requires a response. It requires acceptance and return of love. It requires humility and truth.
When you offer love to someone who isn’t hungry for love and has none to return, then your love makes them feel awkward and uncomfortable. They feel the need to distance themselves from your love. Your love feels intrusive.
The best way to serve the one you love who is not interested in being loved is to give them very small bites of your love at a time. Feed them drops and keep the well hidden.
1 Corinthians 13:4 Love is patient